How to overcome shyness around women

How to overcome shyness around women

Shyness is described as a kind of modified fear of other people and situations. This is exactly what a lot of men feel-a modified fear of approaching and propositioning the women they desire. Shyness usually is just a thin crust of uncertainly that can be easily overcome with the right mind set.. So, let’s look at how to overcome shyness around women.

Change Your Self-Image!

Your self image is basically the way you see your-self. And the way you see your self influences the way others see you and treat you. What you may not realize is that your self image is not cast in stone. It can be changed. You are not your behavior. Most every-one has felt shy on occasion, but when you describe your-self as being “shy” you are identifying who you are by a behavior. Changing your-self begins with thinking of your-self in a different way. Start thinking of your-self as a self confident, assertive man who find it easy to meet women. How would such a man think, feel and act?

Never Put Women Up On A Pedestal.

One of the ways that  men, shy or not keep them-selves from approaching and propositioning women is to place them up on a pedestal and worship them. When you do this you make women unreachable to you. Respect women, but don’t worship them. After all, there are millions of available women out there for you.

Cultivate Your Positive Expectancy.

Many shy guys have a very negative, defeatist way of thinking, especially when it comes to succeeding with women. You usually get what you expect. Positive expectancy means expecting the best possible out come of any situation. From now on expect good things to happen to and for you. Don’t merely hope and pray that thing will go well when you pursue women, expect it. Dwell on the best case scenario.Do that and you will start to overcome shyness around women!

Start Small And Get Bolder And Bolder!

If you’re shy and lacking in a great deal of experience in talking to women and trying to seduce them, start small and build on your small successes. Begin by simply saying hi to the women you meet through out the day.To begin to overcome shyness around women, start with average looking women whom you are fairly comfortable with and begin making small talk with them about the weather, current affairs or what have you. Then as your confidence increases, begin asking women out on dates. Get on getting progressively bolder and bolder with hotter and hotter women!

Be Persistent!

No man regardless of his prowess at seducing women, succeeds all of the time. He will experience rejection along the way. Don’t take it personally or too seriously. Learn from them and move past them! Stay focused on your goal of being successful at meeting and seducing women.


By changing your self-image, never placing women up on a pedestal, starting small and being persistent you will definitely smash through your shyness and begin meeting the women you desire. These steps are how you overcome shyness around women and create the dating life you desire!